How To Get A Girl To Notice You In College

One thing that everyone underestimates is how much mix CDs can bring people together. That is the crux of how to get a girl closer to you.

There are two scenarios to look at here. One: the girl is in one of your classes. Two: the girl is just around campus. (I know I should be writing ‘woman’, since by the time a girl is in college she is a woman, but it sounds pretentious). Let’s start with if she’s not in your class, since that’s harder. You need to put yourself around her. Don’t stalk her, that’s creepy. But if you happen to notice that she stops in at the snack bar for a smoothie on Tuesdays and Thursdays after her one o’ clock class, then try and be there too. If she has a routine, there’s no reason you can’t also, just one that happens to match hers in a few ways. After a couple weeks of this, once you’ve established eye contact and smiled over, say, someone who takes forever ordering, ask if you can sit with her. Start talking. Ask her what bands she likes. Establish yourself as a music nut, even if that’s not true. Wait another week or so. Then bring in the mix CD you made for her. Since she thinks you’re a music nut and you do this all the time, it won’t seem weird.

If she’s in your class, just walk with her after class. Do the same, ask what bands she likes, establish yourself as super into music. Then wait through one class session. The one after that, bring in the mix CD.

Now for making the mix CD. The best part is, you don’t even have to know music. If you happen to know someone who is, ask for their help, but if you don’t, the internet is very helpful for such things. And iTunes has the Genius service, where it can recommend bands for you based on what you like. So you just need to have some of the songs from bands she likes, then voila! Before you know it, you will have all the songs you need. Be sure to mix sappy in with rocking. Pay attention to the order, makes sure it flows well. Come up with a funny title for it that will make her smile, write it on the CD with a Sharpie, say ‘From (Your Name)’.

Once she’s listened to it she will return to you. It doesn’t matter if she really liked it or not, you put the effort in for her. And that’s really what matters to women. The effort.